The American Dream Under Siege: When Homeownership Becomes a Burden
Across the United States, many homeowners are finding that the dream of owning a home has turned into a financial nightmare. Skyrocketing mortgage and loan interest rates, coupled with surging home insurance premiums and property taxes, are straining household budgets, leaving many feeling trapped and financially insecure.

Meg, a 60-year-old office manager from Maryland, purchased her home in 2020 to avoid rising rents for her and her daughter. However, the decision hasn’t yielded the expected financial relief. “Housing costs consume 50% of her income. She’s been forced to take out an additional mortgage to replace the heating and air conditioning system, and she’s steadily increasing deductibles on her home insurance to keep the premiums down.”
Rising Costs: A National Crisis
The stories shared with The Guardian by homeowners are heartbreaking, painting a picture of escalating expenses that threaten financial stability:
“I’ve come to view home ownership and healthcare as destabilizing forces in my life,” said Bernie, a 45-year-old network engineer from Minneapolis.
Amie, a self-employed writer from rural Maine, secured a reasonable mortgage interest rate but faces immense pressure from other associated costs.
“Home oil costs are astronomical. The cost to make energy efficient repairs such as new windows, improved insulation, or heat pump installation are beyond our financial reach.”
Property taxes add to the burden.
“They just went up again,” Amie said. “I recently had to create a payment plan for the electricity bills. If we could build a small holding on this land and get rid of this house I absolutely would. It’s completely overwhelming. I feel trapped.”
Seeking Alternatives
For some, the dream of homeownership has been shattered, forcing them to consider drastic measures to lower their costs and find financial stability.

Stephanie, a 49-year-old psychotherapist, sold her Massachusetts home and moved to Colorado. “I don’t believe it’s feasible for me to own a non-manufactured home again. After I sold my last home, I walked away with only $200k, after 17 years of mortgage payments and large expenditures on upkeep.”

Jane, a 69-year-old pensioner from rural California, is battling soaring insurance rates. “The cost for fire insurance is skyrocketing, my rates jumped from $3,200 a year to $7,886 in October. Maybe I should have planned better, but fire insurance wasn’t a thing when I bought this property.”

Connie Jones, a 63-year-old graphic artist from Wisconsin, is struggling to recover from a tornado’s damage; the insurance covered little of it. Now she is debating whether to sell and move to a more affordable area or keep her property for an inheritance for our daughter. “Property taxes are almost $4,000 a year and keep increasing. We really don’t know if it’s all worth it and definitely feel like we can’t balance all the costs of owning a home.”

Bill Howard, 67, moved to Medellín, Colombia, to escape the rising costs of homeownership in Reno, Nevada. He realized that his fixed retirement income wouldn’t keep up with rising housing costs. “It was incredibly painful to leave everything behind. There were many reasons why I wanted to stay; it felt like being forced out.”
A Growing Concern
Homeowners, both young and old, are feeling the pressure. Morgan, a 36-year-old from Philadelphia, is also concerned.
“I’ve had to prioritize discretionary expenses and have cut down the number of times per month I’m seeing a therapist. I have considered selling my house to cut down on expenses, but I only bought a year and a half ago and I’d prefer not to sell yet so I don’t lose money on closing costs.”
These accounts reveal a growing crisis that has pushed many Americans to the brink because of the escalating costs of homeownership and the financial stress it creates.